Independence means that the children can not overly dependent on their parents or other people to relatively independently deal with their own things, which is a protection of a successful life and a better future of family life for every child. In order to cultivate children’s self- personality, you can proceed from the following aspects.
Firstly, give the children the opportunity to take care of themselves. Some children do not have these basic life skills, but this is not the child’s fault, the parents overindulge their children, so all children’s things should be done by themselves.
Secondly, teach children to protect themselves. Parents and children should be frequent exchanges, so that children have a basic awareness of prevention. Parents should give children some first aid knowledge, such as he cannot use fire elevators in fire.
Thirdly, give the child enough space. Parents just are the child’s guardian. After all, children have their own ideas, if the child’s parents peek at the diary or other small secrets of children, which easily cause child’s resentment and antipathy, so parents should observe the daily performance of the child to give more social experience to baby.
In a word, the above three is beneficial to the development of the children’s self-reliance.